A temporary affair: Yes, please!

Affairs can be polarizing. For some, they are an absolute taboo. Others see them as an exciting way to escape everyday life. And to explore new aspects of one’s own sexuality along the way.

Both sides have their justification. Everyone should love and date as he or she wishes. But in this article we want to highlight the advantages of a temporary affair. After all, the temporary relationship has its advantages. Provided that you clear possible pitfalls early out of the way.

How? You can find that out and much more now.

Having a temporary relationship: This is how it works

Let’s go through the classic process. How and where do you find a temporary affair?

Nowadays, you have to be honest, about the Internet. Either via a dating app or, ideally, via a single platform like TALEJA.

Your advantage: You have the choice between a huge number of singles. A full 77 percent of people in the 16 to 29 age group in Germany use an online dating service. Between the ages of 30 and 49, two out of three people still do.

That’s a pretty big proportion. And you should take advantage of that. This means: Simply check out the offer on the dating portal you trust. And get in touch with the singles you find really exciting.

In the chat you will quickly notice whether there is a match between you.

So first the theory. But in practice the concept is even nicer. Because: You are ‘just’ looking for a temporary affair. And that means: Even if something speaks against a relationship with the other person – for example because the person is soon going abroad for a few months – you can find each other. After all, you only want to be together for a limited amount of time.

Another advantage: you have no pressure. This isn’t about getting married and planning big for the future. Instead, the focus is on the experience. There is no stress about future plans, moving in together or other ‘next steps’. It’s all about the moment.

You are embarking on an adventure that is missing from your current life. An adventure full of romance, sensuality and intimacy. Only a temporary affair can offer that.

Two single ladies browsing Taleja on the phone for a perfect date match

Better than ONS

Maybe you have an objection now. Why enter into a temporary affair or relationship when you can also have ONS?

The advantage of a temporary affair is obvious: you and your temporary partner get to know each other more intensively than with a one-night bed affair. This gives you the chance to try out things together that would never be considered at an ONS.

It’s about pushing your own boundaries, discovering preferences or simply finding out what you really want in intimate relationships.

Tips to make temporary love work

As with anything involving the heart and emotions, affairs have risks. The biggest danger: that feelings develop. No matter whether from one or both sides.

Open communication is key here.

If you decide to have a temporary affair, you should be clear and open about your own intentions and boundaries. Both parties involved should be aware of the nature of their relationship and ensure that they have the same intentions.

A temporary affair can be a wonderful adventure and enrich you with new, exciting experiences. Just try it. Maybe on TALEJA?